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Wednesday, 9 January 2013

...what cant knock you,

...Makes You stronger...


I've had so much going on with Court things~ which have been one very big, scary animal!!!!
I havent documented too much about it on my blog, but I've now had my final hearing and I am so pleased with the outcome~ My daughter's happiness has been my goal throughout and now I can breathe that these very important things have been made very clear to someone who thinks only of himself...
The last 3 months I feel I've been to hell and back...But what cant knock you makes you stronger?!~ well, kind of, but I have been totally knocked for six...and sometimes its not so easy to just 'cheer up'!.
I've kept busy, well, I've had to I'd have gone mad if I didn't.
But I'm not going to beat myself up anymore...I know now I did everything right for my little girl and I will never let someone be-little me.
Sitting in a Court room with all eye's on you is nothing I wish on anyone~ Trying to not break down while speaking was my main issue...Thankfully I had a very confident and clued up Solicitor which had given me a 'voice' on the things I would have found very hard talking about...It was all upsetting.
Anyway, Its 'OVER'...I did it...above everything else I'm a good Mum and I care about my daughter and her future. And finally I have the law on my side and I will not be bullied anymore!...

I can breathe!...Yay!!.



On a really cheerful note I'd won another Giveaway...
From Lovely Madelief 's blog...
A wonderful book...'Creative Walls'...really inspirational...also she sent Sweet pea some lovely gift tags and sweet notelets.  Thank you sooo much x


...So if you been wondering why my blog posts have been lacking some what you will understand my life's been in quite some pickle since the end of the Summer...

I'm just hoping things will settle down a little bit, 

x Kazzy x


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  1. Sounds like 2013 will be a better year for both of you. Congrats on getting this behind you.

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  2. That's brilliant news i'm really pleased for you!!What an immense relief it must be!! Sending you lots of warm wishes for 2013 xxx

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  3. Kazzy congratulations...wonderful to hear you have all that nastiness behind you...and you've stood strong...good for you!

    keep well

    Amanda :-)

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  4. Standing up to bullies takes it out of you
    Onwards & upwards for you and your loved ones through 2013!
    Nicky
    x

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  5. Brilliant, I am so pleased for you and Sweet Pea. 2013 is going to be your year! Lots of love
    Julie xxxxxxxxxx

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  6. Wonderful to hear Kazzy! 2013 will be your year! With love, Geli

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  7. Wishing you continued happiness in 2013.
    Ellie
    x

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  8. Glad to hear that things are getting brighter and brighter to you, Kazzy. I can only imagine how relieved you are right now. Wishing you lots more of happiness your way. xxx

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  9. So happy for you but not surprised you feel so shell shocked.Things can be unbelievably life sucking at times.Look forward to a happier year and feel proud that you have done the right thing by your little Sweet pea.Sending you love and big Yorkshire hug.Anne x

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  10. So happy that you won the war Kazzy. Keep positive and enjoys your little sweet pea! She's all that matters at the end of the day!

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  11. What a lovely start to the new year. May 2013 be a much happier, calmer year for you both x

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  12. Well done you.A great start to the New year.I love your blog.

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  13. my goodness what a time you have had but you have made it to the other side - woot woot xxxxxx
    put all the nasties behind you and step out into your new life and enjoy
    love to you two sweet girls
    t x

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  14. All power to you Kazzie!What a strong woman and mum you are. Can't have been easy, time now to be proud of yourself. Have fun with your smashing girl. Steph xx

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  15. What brilliant news, showing the bullies that they cant beat you down. Hopefully now you can put the nasties of 2012 behind you and what a fabulous start to 2013.

    Lots of joy and happiness being wished your way for you and your girl xx

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  16. Good luck for the new year Kazzy, things can only get better chuck!

    Love, Claire xxx

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  18. well kazzy i am so thrilled i found your blog again, take your time to regain your strength emotionally, do nice things and know that you deserve all good things that come your way. happy new year to you. best wishes jackie x

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  19. I have missed visiting you.Now that I have caught up, I'm so happy the hardest part of what you've been facing is over.One of My daughters went through the same thing so I know how stressful it is.You My Dear are a lovely Mother and We (blogett)followers of you all KNOW that.Sweetpea is blessed by you and your family.

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  20. Great news, now to look forwards, not back... enjoy the future with your special girly :-)

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  21. So happy to hear that things are looking up for you in this new year...blessings to you and your daughter!

    ~Nadine

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  22. I am so, so pleased for you what a great start to 2013! :) x

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  23. 2013 is off to a good start!!

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  24. Oh Kazzy I am so pleased for you,you must of been dreading going to court but now you can put it all behind you and you and you lovely little girl can get on with what us girls get up to and enjoy the rest of your lifes together happy and safe,you deserve it.Love to you both and a big X to your little one.Love Jill xx

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  25. Onwards and upwards, 2013 is going to be a good year.

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  26. Thank goodness. You were mentioning now and again the pressure you were under and we could only guess at what you were actually going through and feeling. At least you've achieved what you wanted from the sound of it and now life can move forward. Have fun with your Sweet Sweet Pea Kazzy. Kick back and just enjoy being you.

    Much love Lisa X

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  27. This sounds horrendous. I can remember the post when you hoped a certain someone would not let your daughter down again...it seems that ultimately that has happened, as all this sounds so unnecessary. Good on you!!!! Sweetpea is blessed with a gorgeous, kind and talented mum. Take care both of you.

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  28. Hello Kazzy
    So glad you have come through a very tough time and won..now you and your little daughter can enjoy each other again without worrying...It must have been very hard for you all
    So sending you very happy wishes for 2013
    Enjoy!!
    Thea x

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  29. Well that is very pleasing for you and Sweet Pea and may this year bring you renewed self confidence and conviction with many happy times ahead!

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  30. I've only found your blog recently, but I have to tell you how moved I was by this post.

    It does make you stronger...eventually!!

    xxx

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  31. Dearest Kazzy
    This is such good news and you really need to just be kind and gentle with yourself and know what a wonderful mum you are and now this will be the beginning of really good things to come. I am so very relieved and pleased for you. Enjoy your precious Sweet pea xox Penelope

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  32. I am so pleased and happy for you - you can now begin a new year free of too much worry. No one could ever doubt you are a wonderful Mum and you are such an inspiration with your creativity and lovely pictures. Karen xx

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  33. Oh Kazzy, I'm so pleased that there has been a positive outcome for you, and for Sweetpea! It's been a long, difficult journey for you, and I know at times you must have felt so disheartened and worried. You are a wonderful mum, anyone can see that, and I wish you all that is wonderful, good and wholesome for 2013. I pray that you can put all the anxiety behind you, and rest in the knowledge that you have held your own, made it through, and you can hold Sweetpea tight and look forward to tomorrow, and every day that is to follow! Much love, Tania ♥

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  34. So happy for you and wishing for a year full of happiness!! A sweet giveaway you won! xo Heather

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  36. Wishing you and your daughter joy and happiness! "Our eyes are placed in the front of our heads because it is more important to look ahead than behind" <3

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  37. So proud of you. I totally understand. In the end one child came with me and the other went to live with their dad. I couldn't split them in two. It is really hard. You did the right thing. You are a great mom. Give yourself I hug from all of us who know of what you speak.
    Love, e

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  38. I too, am so proud of you....you are the best Mom and it shows.....keep your head held high you are a role model for all....love Heidi

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  39. Wishing all good things to come your way. Elizabeth

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  40. Hey Kazzy, well done for keeping it together and standing up for what's right......
    We all know you're a great mum, hoping you can now move forward without this burden holding you back.

    Here's to a brighter, happier new year,

    Claire X

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  41. Hi Kazzy

    Well done! Now you can built a bright new future filled with love for you and your little girl!!. They are so precious but they really grow up far too quickly, so, enjoy every moment you have with her!!!

    AMarie
    xxx



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  42. Good for you!
    Congratulations.
    I hope 2013 will continue being a postitive year for you.

    Love, Léonie

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  43. I think 2013 is going to be the year for you!!

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  44. Brilliant news - here's to a very happy 2013 for you & Sweetpea :) xxxxx

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  45. Dear Kazzy; I am so glad for you! A mother can be as strong as a lion to fight for her child! I hope it will be a good year for your both!
    Sweet Pea is lucky to have such a loving and creative MUM!!!
    I read on Madeliefs Blog You won the Giveaway and was happy about it.
    Sometimes Madelief and I meet us and she is realy nice!
    greetings from Fleur- Netherlands.

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  46. From someone who has been there (minus the court route) well done. Take some time for yourself to take it all in. Xx

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  47. good news hope that everthing is going to be fine and
    that you and sweet pea can carree on with youre lifes
    take care and tumbs up wish you a lot of luck
    greethings leon10

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  48. Hi Kazzy, your a wonderful mother with the ability to create the most magical little world for your daughter.You know now how strong you can be, wishing you and Sweetpea the best of things for the coming year. Lot of hugs

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  49. Hi Kazzy, sometimes it is necessary to go through something terrible to find out just how strong we are. You are a strong woman, and a loving, wonderful Mum to Sweetpea. You also have a lovely creative soul. So step out from the shadows into the sunshine, raise your arms and breath in the sweet refreshing air. Very best wishes for 2013. Philippa xx

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  50. Very very well done Kazzy. Your post reminded me of years back when I too had to stick up for my children in a court room. It was hard and upsetiing and afterwards you just feel exhausted.
    And you are right - it did make me stronger and I can't be bullied anymore :)
    You now need to take some time for you when your little girl is in school :)
    Much love.
    L.x.

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  51. Kazzy, I am so happy for you, I also know what it is like to stand up in court, however I was not listened to and my solicitor was useless, but mine was a settlement issue not child related. I am so glad that you stood tall and proud and true to yourself, you are a wonderful mummy and person and that obviously shone through.
    xx Sandi

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  52. Well done on acheiving what you set out to do. Protecting your little ones is a very instictive thing for us mums and the courage and strength we find in ourselves when challenged amazes me. Carry on being the wonderful and caring mum you so obviously are. Hope the sun is now shining in your world Kazzy after such heavy clouds.

    Take care.

    P x

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  53. Dear Kazzy,
    I'm so relieved to read your wonderful news and I want to say that I think you're amazing!! I'm full of respect and admiration for your strength and courage, it must have been terrifying!! Sweet pea belongs with you, you are the most incredible mother!!
    Thank you so much for continuing with your blog through all this, your posts are always inspiring and a joy to read!!
    Hugs ♥ Vicky ♥

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  54. I have been where you are and we amaze ourselves how strong we are, as you say our little one's happiness is the most important thing.....keep strong xx

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  55. Thinking of you Kazzy, so so glad for you that its over and you and sweet pea can get on with life,, lets hope that this year is a more positive and sunny one for you both.
    Hugs and more hugs
    Pixie x

    ps....gorgeous win by the way. x

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  56. i am so sorry to hear the pain you have gone through, but happy to hear it is over. i pray that things start looking brighter for you kazzy, i really do xxxx

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  57. Kisses for kazzy and the sweet pea xxxxxxxxx

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  58. {{Kazzy}} I hope that you can now move forward to a brighter future for you and your daughter. Best wishes, Pj x

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  59. Hi been without my computer for ages so been unable to comment on your lovely blog, im sorry you have been through a rough time , in my experience theres no stress and upset like that of trying to sort out acsess to little ones with a thick headed ex! Glad it all turned out ok for you x and now ive got a shiney new tablet I look forward to reading your blog :)
    May 2013 be full of peace and happiness for you xx
    Lucy ××

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  60. Very best wishes to you both. x

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  61. I'm so happy to hear these great news! Hope you and your little girl have a wonderful time and a year full of happiness! Enjoy time with sweet little pea because it's the most important thing! Wish you joy, love and happiness!

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  62. What wonderful news, mostly that it is all OVER!!
    Now you can get back to how it should be and was before it got in the way.
    x

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  63. I'm so happy for you and well done for being so brave, as you know I did the same thing 18 years ago now...eek getting old!! and it is a tough one...I don't ever think about it now, time will move on honey, your wounds will heal, and when its right you will meet your knight, who will come and sweep you off your feet. if you want him too that is ;-) xx BIG hugs
    Love Sophie xx

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  64. Kazzy,
    I'm so glad that everything has now been sorted for you and this ordeal is now behind you and those difficult months are now behind you.
    Sarah x

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  65. I'm so relieved to heat that things have gone your way, anyone in their right mind can see you are the best thing for that beautiful girl. Life is often hard but the best things never come easy do they. Now that is sorted I hope the rest of the year is amazing for you both
    Huge hugs xxx

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  66. It all sounds so awful, you must be very glad it's over. I hope you can breathe easier now and really look forward to 2013.

    Gillian x

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  67. Hola!! ya te habia escrito antes, es que me encanta tu blog y aunque no lo creas lo visito a DIARIO!! sí sí.. todas tus fotos y tu creatividad ,el mundo que nos muestras a travez de tus ojos..así es la belleza segun me la muestras atravez de tu arte, sim embargo por problemas en la traduccion no sabia por lo que pasabas,lo lamento mucho! pero con tu energia,alegria y tu niña hermosa saldras de esto con exito!! sigue mostrandonos belleza y amor en todo lo que haces que realmente es maravilloso!
    un gran abrazo!!

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  68. 2013, bring it on! I am so happy for you that now you can breathe and turn the corner to a new and better path.

    You are strong, smart and loving. I love that your new voice must have raised some heads in that court room.

    Looking forward to more beautiful posts from you and your SweetPea.

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  69. Hello sweet Kazzy, Your photos are so sweet and beautiful as always! Your giveaway prizes are lovely! Sweetie, I am so very sorry for all you have gone through and the terrible stress you have been under! I pray things will be much better now and you can begin to enjoy everyday with this, hopefully, behind you. You are a wonderful and loving mum and a strong woman too! I am so proud of you!!! I can imagine how difficult that was and you did it, hard as it was for you, your love for your little girl gave you the strength to get through it! That is so beautiful! Your sweet pea is very blessed to have you for her mum. I am so happy for both of you and hope that each day will bring more peace and joy. Sending you a big hug and lots of love, Paula xoxo

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  70. What a lovely emotional post. Thanks for sharing. I am new to your blog and love the heading as I know only too well that 'what doesn't kill you makes you stronger' You, (like me), will survive and learn from horrid experiences and life will go on and be happy again.
    PS Try my giveaway x

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  71. Dear Kazzy,

    What a beautiful start of the new year. I can almost feel your relief in Holland :-)!I am happy to hear it's over now and you and sweet pea can start living again.

    I am glad my daughter picked your winning number for the giveaway. It could not have been won by a more suitable person.

    Have a lovely weekend!

    Madelief x

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  72. Hooray!!! I am so happy you can move on and you are a good Mom and you have a very precious daughter...Blessings to both of you ♥♥

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  73. congratualtions! you are a beautiful monther xx

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  74. Just catching up on my blog reading, Kazzy I'm so happy for you this is fantastic news and what a wonderful start to the New Year.
    Much love
    Beki xx

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  75. you must feel so relieved for standing up for yourself! be kind to your self for a while now! Heather x

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  76. Your little Sweet Pea is blessed to have you. Now you can relax a bit. Your blog is so colorful - I love it! Elizabeth at Creative Breathing sent us over!

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  77. So Happy that all turned out as it should....I can't imagine the stress you must have been under. Here's to the future for you and your darling sweet pea.
    Jacquie x

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  78. I am so happy for you and Sweetpea and I hope you are both having a wonderful New Year! xxxxx

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  79. Oh that's such lovely news Kazzy!
    I know it must've been a tough experience for you both but I'm a firm believer in that there is always a positive from every negative in life even if we don't know why at the time.
    Well done for sticking it with it hun. Sweet pea will be so proud of her strong Mum when she is old enough to truly understand...

    Now you can relax and start enjoying those happy childhood memories even more in the safe knowledge knowing she will always be with you hun...

    Huge hugs
    Tilly x

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  80. Hoera! de strijd is gestreden! That's in Dutch and means Yeaah! the battle has bean fought! I'm so glad for you! I'f bean in a similar situation. And it is terrible! But your love is stronger! Love Win's every time. I wish you a lot of love! Greetings from Holland, Jeanet

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  81. Well done and congratulations, love won the day.. Wishing you a very happy 2013

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  82. Well, hopefully the pickle is all over. Wishing you and lovely Sweet Pea the most wonderful times to come and all sorts of happiness and loveliness! Maggie.

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  83. Hello Kazzy
    I always stop by your blog but I don't always comment. The folksy weekend with your Mum sounds wonderful...just my cup of tea. You painted a wonderful picture with your words and I conjured up the images. Sometimes a camera is more of a nuisance, i am sure you have wonderful 'heart' photos to remember the evening by.
    I am really sorry to hear of your emotional struggles...I am just about to embark on a very similar thing, via mediation but am certain that the person wishes for his day in court ... No going back...onwards and upwards
    I am sure your's and sweet peas future is bright. The best is yet to come.
    Thinking of you.
    Keep strong.
    LOVE PEACE enJOY every minute of everything that makes your heart sing.
    Julie
    x

    P.S. Well Done on winning the give away. I LOVE that book, just a bit apprehensive about decorating walls in a rental ;O though. Happy reading!

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  84. I haven't been over for a while i to like the lady above would often pop over and read but not always comment some how you gone from news feed. Im so sorry to read of the struggle you have been experencing but im so very happy that you got the outcome that you needed for yourself and your beautiful little girl. Never doubt your mothering skills you are a wonderful mum and it shows in everything you say and do. Being a single mum is so very hard and i know i was one myself for years and having no family here to help either was very diffuclt at times espcially with my sons illness. But life changes and you take on another direction and thats what will now happen to you lovely. Good luck with everything and keep shinning brightly, dee x

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